Fix TestVm::Init test to reflect true time to create a warmed thread

[leonm1]

Includes a microbenchmark to demonstrate the time it takes to create and warm a new WasmVm instance for each runtime, which was used to find the thresholds for the regression test.

I ran the regression test with many --runs_per_test to fine-tune the limits to avoid flakes.

Benchmark results with --dynamic_mode=off -c opt

Run on (128 X 2450 MHz CPU s)
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Benchmark                       Time             CPU   Iterations
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BM_V8WarmVmStart           535905 ns       535830 ns         1303
BM_WasmtimeWarmVmStart        372 ns          372 ns      1880324
BM_WasmEdgeWarmVmStart        235 ns          235 ns      2978325
BM_WamrWarmVmStart            181 ns          181 ns      3868665

In fastbuild:

Run on (128 X 2450 MHz CPU s)
***WARNING*** Library was built as DEBUG. Timings may be affected.
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Benchmark                       Time             CPU   Iterations 
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BM_V8WarmVmStart         13467098 ns     13464209 ns           51 
BM_WasmtimeWarmVmStart       6539 ns         6538 ns       106450 
BM_WasmEdgeWarmVmStart       1524 ns         1523 ns       457547 
BM_WamrWarmVmStart            859 ns          859 ns       801159