[release/10.0] Fix CheckBox/RadioButton Appearance switching in Dark Mode

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Backport of #14194 to release/10.0

Proposed changes

• Added UpdateOwnerDraw() call in the Appearance setter for both CheckBox and RadioButton
• Optimized call order to avoid unnecessary operations:
  Handle state change first (may RecreateHandle) and then refresh if handle wasn't recreated

Customer Impact

• CheckBox and RadioButton now correctly switch between Normal and Button appearance in Dark Mode

Regression?

• Yes (Regressed from PR Fix DarkMode Button issues #13608)

Risk

• Minimal

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Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 77.10799%. Comparing base (2355576) to head (70bc8e8).

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