Set default values for max depth and max fields

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Current Limitation

#9920 introduced a max depth and max fields protection system that is optional and disabled by default.

Feature / Enhancement Description

Enable by default by adding default values for #9920.

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[Moumouls]

Some default values could be

 maxGraphQLQueryComplexity: {
          depth: 50,
          fields: 250,
        },

maxIncludeQueryComplexity: {
          depth: 10,
          count: 50,
        },

Note the x5 factor on the depth, it will may be need adjustments depending of developers feedback