[xitca-web] add toasty as orm (#10294)

* [xitca-web] add toasty as orm

* dep update

* reduce dep

* use sync pipeline for multiple queries

* reduce usage of explicty vector size hint

* remove unnecssary iterator method

* simplify pipelined update query

* dedup main functions

* prevent pg server from deadlocking itself

Author: fakeshadow

frameworks/Rust/xitca-web/.cargo/config.toml

@@ -1,6 +1,3 @@
 [build]
 rustflags = ["-C", "target-cpu=native", "--cfg", "tokio_unstable"]
 incremental = false
-
-[target.wasm32-wasip1-threads]
-rustflags = ["-C", "target-feature=+simd128", "--cfg", "tokio_unstable"]